For some reason, SEX has been a main topic of conversation for me and the people I have been talking to lately. This isn't really that strange, as sex is a topic that seems to come up regularly for a lot of people. But, I've found that lately the conversations have been about the lack of sex.
For me, it's been a while. But I have been pretty good at being cool with that. I have had offers, so opportunity is knocking at my door. I just haven't answered. Why? The sex isn't worth the other stuff I would have to go through before, during, and after. In my case, I would have to go through more work to get to the sex than the actual act. It has more to do with who's asking than anything else. And for me, it's not worth the nut.
Besides that, why is it so important for us to have sex so often? The obvious. It's one of the things, if not the one thing, you want to do often if you have the chance to do it. Who doesn't like sex? I don't know many people don't.
These are the some of the reasons I was given as to why people aren't having as much sex as they would like (in no specific order):
For me, it's been a while. But I have been pretty good at being cool with that. I have had offers, so opportunity is knocking at my door. I just haven't answered. Why? The sex isn't worth the other stuff I would have to go through before, during, and after. In my case, I would have to go through more work to get to the sex than the actual act. It has more to do with who's asking than anything else. And for me, it's not worth the nut.
Besides that, why is it so important for us to have sex so often? The obvious. It's one of the things, if not the one thing, you want to do often if you have the chance to do it. Who doesn't like sex? I don't know many people don't.
These are the some of the reasons I was given as to why people aren't having as much sex as they would like (in no specific order):
- Not dating/in a relationship with anyone
- Can't find a suitable participant (haven't met/don't know anyone they want to have sex with, dick size (too big and too small- lol), opportunity, different sexual appetites, sexual compatibility (types of sex and sexual activities)
- Lack of confidence/not feeling sexy or attractive
- Trust issues
- STD concerns
It's interesting how people contemplate with whom, where, when, why, and how they have sex. Are you having sex? If you are, good for you. Stroke it a couple times for me, aight? Cool... IF YOU AREN'T HAVING SEX, WHY NOT?
1 comments:
Wow, this is an interesting topic. I gues the past few years of my life I've wondered whats the big deal about sex myself. (not to play down my mate..lol)
Sex really seems to be more of a turn on (no pun intended) when your younger then when you've matured and realize it's not worth the additional stress, aggrivation, and some times, let down.
Isn't it as easy to pleasure yourself with no hassle?
Well, for me, I beleive it's gone beyond the idea of sex. It's about intimacy. Having another body near. Sometimes having that body near ends up turning into a sexual encounter, but sometimes I think I would be happy with just cuddling.
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